Jesse James...

Wow. And sitting there with the big crocodile tears. Again, there is no gloating. No joy in anyone's pain. No, see what happens?!

There is only America's sweetheart...an Academy Award winner...who suffered the same as millions of other America's sweethearts (who don't have Academy Awards - but trust and love just the same) suffer.

Lied to. Betrayed. Embarrassed.

So, what did Sandra do when she discovered the infidelity?

She kicked his ass to the curb. And this is why I love her.

And what did poor Jesse do? I bet he dropped to his knees and thanked God she was not holding a nine iron.

Good, successful, brilliant and talented women require in a man - strength, courage and honesty above all. And I believe that if any guy is texting or emailing or "facebook-ing" women, especially those who look like they need a flea dip - while in a relationship with the real "prize," a good girl that many men dream of being worthy of? Well, hell boys, that automatically makes you a tool.

Now. My tools are kept in the shed.

After of course, their ass is kicked to the curb.

Miss S - showing America's Sweethearts - all of us, each and every one - how it's done!

You know you love me - Candi